Venting out my frustration

I guess I did vented out to others that we broke up. More than you do. Probably it is one sided in the first place.

But believe me, no one will exactly know how deep and big the frustration is. Not now and maybe not in the future. But maybe someone will know, if I decided to give up this life.

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